Why Our Girlfriends are Actually Our Soul mates


  • She will always be there to listen to you (no matter for how long!)
  • She will reply to your texts/emails in a timely fashion and not have some lame ass excuse why she didn’t “get the message”
  • She understands your shopping, shoe, color coordinated closet loving self
  • She will give you hugs just because
  • You can share clothes, shoes, accessories and purses
  • If you cry; she probably will too
  • You can be the happiest, saddest or angriest person around her and she will love you just the same
  • No matter how much time goes on in between talking or seeing each other; you can pick up right where you left off
  • You never question her motives
  • She will tell you when you’re being a biatch
  • If she doesn’t like the guy you’re dating – you probably shouldn’t either (she sees things a little clearer than you Ms Butterflies)
  • If you wanted to curl up with cookies and milk and a Disney movie; she’d most likely join you
  • You can talk about shows  you both watch as if you’re actually living them or are friends with the cast
  • She understands your Pinterest addiction; in fact she’s addicted too!
  • She would being you soup and crackers when you’re sick without worrying about getting sick
  • You can go get mani’s and pedi’s together
  • She says she loves you when you hang up the phone
  • You can call or text in the middle of the night crying or drunk and she will answer the phone
  • You can sleep in the same bed
  • P.I.C. = Partner in Crime
  • She won’t judge you if you’re wearing a tank and yoga pants – ALL DAY
  • You can complain about anyone you’re dating to her and she will actually try to give you advice
  • If you’re having a bad day- she will have some words of advice or even a quote to send your way
  • She’s always down to get Fro-Yo; sometimes even for dinner!
  • She can make you laugh even if you’re crying
  • You can both sing your favorite songs at the top of your lungs
  • Getting ready to go out is code for “dance party”
  • She will believe in you and your future even when you don’t
  • You both have told each other some embarrassing stories
  • You can watch TV show marathons together and be content
  • You can be her “date”
  • You can do each other’s hair and makeup
  • You’d prefer getting ready together versus apart
  • It’s okay that you want to have a few pictures taken before going out
  • If you want a shot; so does she!
  • If someone treats you like crap; she doesn’t like them.
  • She probably calls your mom and dad “mom” and “dad”
  • You are automatically “Auntie” to their children
  • She loves you no matter what!

Cherish your girlfriends. Good ones are hard to come by. Don’t them for granted, especially if you’re in a relationship! Always make time for your girlfriends…without them, live would be much duller and much harder. They understand you more than any man ever will.

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Hugs and Loves, Wishes for the Soul



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